She considered herself, his only one, assuming herself to be his whole world..
But one day Time showed her, in his life, what was her exact position,
She found, she’s not the whole, she’s one among all the other ones..
She’s not his life, she’s but just a part of it, she’s his wife…!!
She isn’t his only someone who’s entitled to assist him forever,
Who’s connected with him only through compassion, love..
He also has many other parts to fulfill, other roles to play in life..
Which needed equal attention, along with his wife’s.
He’s birthed out of love, in his loving family, much before she came there,
He toils hard with another family, all of whom earns their living, lovingly, altogether,
He has his own set of friends, who must be there too in his list of lovers..
May be the last one, after all his duties done, but mustn’t be the least,..
He should have his own Space for his own Self, something that we all desperately need.
( -> The above lines were put together keeping a compassionate view for all the homemakers (men/women) of the world,. who are mostly taken for granted. Whereas they render all their wholehearted services out of sheer love and understanding only, all through their lives. The only thing they expect back is their share of love and understanding, which they don’t get,. Thus unknowingly, a void gets created.
Totally unaware of the fact, this void among them ignites a feeling of deprivation. It further takes them to such an extent when they start to feel, they’re the only ones in their spouse’s life who’re adjusting, sacrificing and struggling alone. They feel splitted apart into fragments, while maintaining the whole family and all its needs,. They start assuming themselves as their spouse’s whole world. That, their spouse’s world should revolve around them and them only.
Though this writing was inspired from a real life realisation of a lady, but it comes true for both ‘part’ners equally.
In such a time when relation’ships’ are often found sinking, if this much maturity comes from both ‘part’ners, then only marriages will, not only sustain, but they’ll rock all through.)
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